Anonymous said: you helped more than anyone ever has so thank you so much. i really do appreciate it more than you can imagine. whoever the girl is, its her loss, so again thank you.

No problem. I’m really happy that I could have helped.

Anonymous said: Are you ever self- conscious about anything?

Weight, body, athletic ability, school, intellectual ability, hair, injuries, a bunch of stuff. I think it’s normal to be self conscious. It’s not a great thing, but it happens and you just gotta make the best of it or try to change it. I’m worse than I used to be because I fucked up pretty bad in school, with my family, and with my social life. This past year just wasn’t good for me.

Anonymous said: hey! maybe u can help? please? best way to get over a guy after a long relationship and you gotta deal with seeing him everyday? help?

I don’t really know the best answer to this, but I can try and help. There are a few options to can try:

You can ignore him, just don’t talk to him at all. Don’t pay attention to what he does. Block him on social networking. Delete all the pictures of him and all the texts he sent you. Just delete him out of your life completely. Deal with him only when you have to, don’t stalk his life, and try to forget about him. This is the harshest thing you can do, but I think it’s the best way you can stay away from him.

If you still want to be friends, talk to him, but only when you have to. Keep him on social networking, but try and delete pictures and memories of your relationship. You wouldn’t want to remember the good times with him because that’s just going to make you miss him even more. When you hangout, try to be with other people and not alone. Make sure you ignore his tweets, statuses, actions, etc with other girls, you don’t want to get jealous. It’ll be hard to be friends because it’ll be really easy to remember why you liked him in the first place. If you really want to, you’re going to have to deal with all this.

My biggest suggestion would be to find someone new. Go out and have fun. Don’t throw yourself out there and get with every guy you can, just be open with other people. Mingle. If you can’t find someone new, find something new. Play a sport, join a club, write, read, keep your grades up, do anything you can to distract yourself.

It’s going to be really hard and I know how you feel because I’m dealing with the same problem right now. I see her everyday and it bothers me so much. It’s hard to get over it, but I feel like everyday I get a little better. You just gotta keep reminding yourself that you’re young and you have all the time in the world to find someone new.

It would help if you gave me a little more background info on why you broke up, if he treated you badly, if he cheated, anything bad that he or you did. It would be helpful to know your story. I’m not sure if I helped much, I don’t really feel like I did, but I would like to help you as much as I can.